“When are you getting married?”“You’re not getting any younger.”“Your cousin just got engaged — what are you waiting for?” In many South Asian households, questions about marriage begin early — often before you’ve even graduated or figured out who you are. Marriage isn’t just seen as a personal milestone; it’s often treated as the ultimate validation of your character, your upbringing, and even your family’s honor. But what happens when you’re not ready? Or worse — what if you don’t want to follow the traditional script at all? The pressure to marry — especially for women — can become a daily anxiety, silently affecting your mental health while no one…