Growing up as a South Asian girl often comes with a script already written — excel academically, be respectful, get a “respectable” job, marry someone your parents approve of, and above all, never bring shame or disappointment to the family name. From a young age, many of us are taught that success is defined by how closely we follow this script. But what happens when your version of success doesn’t align with theirs? You’re left feeling like the “disobedient” one. The rebel. The disappointment. The not-so-average daughter. The Pressure to Please In many South Asian households, love and approval can feel conditional — tied to achievement, obedience, and sacrifice. There’s…