A Blog Post for the Quietly Growing, Softly Struggling, and Still-Here Anyway Confidence used to mean feeling good.Now it means looking like you feel good.Add a ring light.Add a trending sound.Add “authenticity”—but keep it digestible. We were told: “Just be yourself.”But that only works if your self is clickable, brandable, and algorithm-friendly. “Why Do We Feel Behind When We’re Not Building a Brand Out of Our Personality?” You’re ambitious. Thoughtful. Talented.But you’re not “out there.” You don’t post every day.You’ve got depth—but not a digital portfolio of your every micro-milestone. So suddenly, you feel like you’re lagging behind.Not in growth.Not in healing.But in visibility. And that’s where it stings.Because the…