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“When Culture and Creativity Collide: Navigating Boundaries as a Desi Female Blogger”
Creating as a Desi woman is both liberating and layered. It’s a space where culture and creativity constantly intertwine — sometimes in harmony, sometimes in conflict. As a blogger, I’ve often found myself questioning what’s “too much,” what’s “not enough,” and who even gets to decide that. There’s an unspoken pressure to represent the community well while also pushing boundaries. And as empowering as that responsibility can be, it also comes with a fair share of internal conflict, external judgment, and a constant balancing act between expression and expectation. Walking the Tightrope: Being Seen Without Being Silenced Blogging has given me a voice I never knew I needed — a…
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“Creating in the Middle: Straddling South Asian Traditions and Modern Narratives”
To be a South Asian woman creating content today means constantly walking a tightrope between honoring the traditions we were raised with and shaping narratives that reflect the modern lives we’re living. It’s not always comfortable, and it’s definitely not always accepted — but somewhere in the middle, there’s space to grow, to tell stories that matter, and to spark conversations that shift perspectives. My journey as a creator didn’t start with the intention of “changing the narrative.” It began with a desire to feel seen — to explore the pieces of my identity that didn’t quite fit into the conventional mold. And as I stepped into this space, I…
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“The Quiet Rebellion of Being Visible: A South Asian Woman’s Journey Into Content Creation”
In a world where South Asian women have often been expected to remain in the background, the act of stepping into the spotlight can feel like a quiet rebellion. Content creation, particularly in today’s digital age, is more than just about sharing your thoughts; it’s about asserting your voice, claiming your space, and challenging the societal expectations that have long shaped our identities. As a South Asian woman, my journey into content creation wasn’t just about pursuing a passion; it was an act of defiance. An act of choosing to be visible in a space that often doesn’t recognize the complexities of my identity. But as I’ve learned, visibility isn’t…
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“Is It Healthy to Compete for Attention from Family or Society?”
Story: Meenakshi grew up in a traditional Marathi household, where expectations ran high, and the concept of competition was ingrained in her from a young age. It wasn’t just about being the best at school or excelling in her career—it was about earning the approval of her family, her relatives, and society at large. The comparison with her cousins, especially her cousin Tanvi, had always been a constant source of stress for her. In Meenakshi’s household, her parents, while loving, always subtly compared her to her cousin Tanvi. Tanvi was the model child in the family—her career was thriving, she had a successful marriage, and even her fashion sense was…
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“From Judgment to Joy: How Letting Go of Competition Made Me a Better Woman”
Anaira’s POV: Zayaan leaving was both a relief and a loss, but it was a loss I was ready to face. The years I had spent competing, fighting for his attention, and trying to mold myself into someone I wasn’t—those years felt like they had been wasted. But now, with Zayaan gone and Mahir moving in as our new tenant, I had room to breathe, to heal, and to finally let go of the toxic patterns we had been stuck in. Mahir, unlike his brother Zayaan, wasn’t here to judge us. He wasn’t here to drag us down or bring up the past to hurt us. He knew about everything—how…
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“The Status Olympics: Marriage, Kids, Career – Why Are South Asian Women Ranked Like This?”
Vidya’s POV:It had been years since I’d last seen Ishpreet, and yet, standing in front of me, she looked so much different. The young girl with the long, coconut-oiled hair and the traditional Punjabi suits had vanished. In her place stood a confident woman with a sleek chocolate brown bob, wearing casual clothes, her style completely transformed. I was taken aback for a moment, but then, the familiar feeling of her presence washed over me. Our shared childhood memories rushed back, and I couldn’t stop the tears from welling up in my eyes. This was my best friend, the girl who had been by my side through it all. “Oh…
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“Can We Talk About How Exhausting It Is to Always Be ‘Better’ Than Someone?”
Misha’s POVThey say comparison is the thief of joy.In my family, it’s practically tradition. I’m Misha.Founder of my own marketing agency.Mentor to women across the country trying to learn SEO.Self-made, no shortcuts, no safety nets. But none of that matters at family dinners.Because I’m not Riya. Riya, the corporate darling.Chartered accountant.Supposedly “so much more ahead” in life than me. What they don’t know is —I’ve seen her.At the club where I used to work as a bouncer.Slurring her words,Grinding on strangers she won’t remember,Crying in the bathroom stall because life isn’t what she promised herself. You say she’s better?Then why is she the one who calls her mum at 2AM…
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“She’s Not Your Rival, She’s Your Reflection”
Aishwarya and Vipasha are sisters, but their worlds couldn’t be more different. Aishwarya, the older sister, is everything that their parents dreamed of: academically successful, well-behaved, married to a stable and well-respected man, and always seen as the ideal, the one who has it all together. As Vipasha’s parents always say, Aishwarya is the “Yash Raj ki heroine,” the perfect embodiment of success, grace, and traditional values. On the other hand, Vipasha, the younger, is the complete opposite. She’s a wild spirit, living for the present, constantly chasing after excitement, and indulging in a lifestyle that doesn’t fit the mold her family has set for her. She’s white-washed, wanting to…
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“Is It Really Love If We’re Always Competing?” – Competitive Friendships Among South Asian Women
Introduction: Laiba and Alishka had been best friends since childhood, growing up side by side through thick and thin. Their bond was unshakeable, formed on trust, laughter, and unconditional support. But as they grew older, their families began to compare them—who was more successful, who was better at academics, who had the better social circle. Slowly, this comparison began to undermine the strength of their friendship. But Laiba wasn’t about to let that happen. She decided it was time to stand up, not only for herself but for her friendship with Alishka, and remind her parents of something vital: Allah SWT didn’t create our lives to be a competition. Laiba’s…
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“From ‘Look at Her’ to ‘Learn from Her’: Changing the Narrative for the Next Generation”
Introduction: Akshita and Gauri are cousins, both navigating life with their own sets of challenges. Akshita is married to Harman, a man she loves, yet who has become distant. Gauri is married to Rahul, who tries to support her but struggles with his own insecurities. Their lives intertwine in ways that force them all to confront deeper truths about themselves and the people around them. As dreams and desires mix with real-life emotions, they each grapple with what it means to truly understand one another—and themselves. Akshita’s POV: Akshita lay awake that night, restless as she struggled with the vivid dream she’d just experienced. In it, Harman and Gauri were…
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