f you grew up in a South Asian household, chances are you’ve heard it all:“Be respectful.”“Focus on your studies.”“Don’t talk back.”“What will people say?” And of course, the ultimate title we were meant to strive for — the “perfect beti.” It sounds innocent, even admirable, right? A daughter who is obedient, successful, and selfless. But what if I told you that this image — this shiny, untouchable ideal — is quietly fueling a cycle of competition, insecurity, and pressure among South Asian women? The Weight of Perfection From a young age, many of us are conditioned to live up to this almost mythical status. It’s not just about being good…