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šø June Theme: What Confidence Really Looks Like for South Asian Women
Deconstruct how confidence is often misinterpreted in South Asian households and culturesāespecially for girlsāand how we can reclaim it. For generations, confidence has been misinterpreted in many South Asian households. A girl who speaks up is labeled disrespectful. One who takes pride in her looks is called attention-seeking. One who disagrees is told she’s too Westernized. Whether it’s a subtle eye-roll at a family gathering or being silenced when we express our opinions, many of us have been conditioned to believe that confidence is incompatible with being a āgoodā South Asian girl. But hereās the truth: confidence is not arrogance. Itās not disobedience. And itās definitely not a betrayal of…
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“Not Your Average Daughter: Redefining Success for South Asian Girls and Overcoming the Fear of Disappointment”
Growing up as a South Asian girl often comes with a script already written ā excel academically, be respectful, get a ārespectableā job, marry someone your parents approve of, and above all, never bring shame or disappointment to the family name. From a young age, many of us are taught that success is defined by how closely we follow this script. But what happens when your version of success doesnāt align with theirs? You’re left feeling like the ādisobedientā one. The rebel. The disappointment. The not-so-average daughter. The Pressure to Please In many South Asian households, love and approval can feel conditional ā tied to achievement, obedience, and sacrifice. Thereās…