There’s a fine line — sometimes invisible — between confidence and comparison. One lifts you up from within.The other needs someone else to be beneath you. And for so many South Asian women, we’ve been taught that “feeling good about yourself” often means being better than someone else — prettier, smarter, more successful, more desirable. But here’s the hard truth:If your self-worth relies on someone else’s lack, is it really confidence?Or is it just comparison wearing a prettier outfit? How We Learn to Measure Ourselves Against Others From childhood, we were quietly trained to link our value to someone else’s. “Look at how well she’s doing.”“Why can’t you be more…