Red Flag Alert: Rishank and the Toxic ‘Fit Guy’ Stereotype We’re Sick of Seeing
Let’s talk about Rishank from Meri Bhavya Life — the so-called “fit,” handsome male lead whose entire attitude screams one thing loud and clear: “Fuck you, plus-size women.”
If you’re watching the show and wondering why this guy acts like he’s the king of judgment and zero empathy, you’re not alone. Rishank isn’t just a problematic character — he’s the poster boy for toxic masculinity disguised as “health” and “fitness.” And honestly, it’s exhausting.
Where Are the Fit Guys Who Actually Respect Plus-Size Women?
Here’s the truth no one on the show wants to admit: not every “fit” or “health-conscious” man looks down on plus-size women or treats them like they’re less than.
We need more characters like that — men who are confident in their own bodies but also understand that attraction isn’t one-size-fits-all, and respect comes first. Men who don’t reduce a woman’s worth to her waistline. Men who see plus-size women as worthy of love, desire, and respect without the constant “but you need to lose weight” or “how can you eat that” bullshit.
Rishank Is a Walking Red Flag
Rishank’s judgmental stares, snide comments, and complete lack of empathy aren’t just bad writing — they’re harmful messaging.
The show tries to position him as a potential love interest, but honestly, any woman watching should be screaming, “Mind my language, but fuck you, Rishank!” for the way he polices Bhavya’s body and treats her like a project instead of a person.
He’s the embodiment of everything toxic in “fit culture” — shallow, unforgiving, and emotionally unavailable.
It’s Time for Better Male Characters
South Asian dramas, and media in general, have an obligation to do better.
We want male characters who lift plus-size women up — who aren’t threatened by their bodies or their confidence. Characters who break the mold of “fit = better, thinner = worthy.”
Until then, characters like Rishank will keep sending the wrong message: that being “fit” justifies being cruel.
Final Word
To Rishank, and all the real-life versions out there — fuck you. We’re not here to shrink or apologize for our bodies. If you can’t respect us as we are, don’t expect us to settle for crumbs.